By: Smriti Sharma
At times things don’t fall into
place, series of events happen that break you down & that make you feel
that the world is prejudiced with self-seeking people. Sometimes you feel like
your life is unfolding in a way you never wanted it to be. At times you want to
scamper to a place of delusion, a place where you can pay out some time with
your own self. Your soliloquy can do the talking and you can be all ears to it.
Does it happen?
At times your only wish is a shoulder
to cry on, your emotions load till the brim of your heart and you just want to
spill it all out. It makes you anxious and it frustrates you, that moment makes
your life a living hell. Sometimes you feel like you had someone, someone who
could expend sometime with you when you are low, when you feel that there is
not even one person among the millions & billions to shed a tear with you.
At those times you just want to cry and cry and cry. Does it happen?
That phase when your someone doesn’t
understand you, when your closed ones are busy with their own reservations,
when among scores of people, you feel alone, left out and just by yourself.
Those are the times when you feel like the world is a selfish place with each
and every person seeking for their own good, where each and every person is
busy making themselves happy with worldly pleasures and you are left out, yet
again just by yourself. Does it happen?
At one point of time, all those
promises appear to be pretentious and fake, all those good moments come back to
haunt you, all those pictures seem to pierce you and those text messages seem
to tear you apart. Sometimes you feel hollow from inside, bland and wounded
because of the negative idiosyncrasies committed by people close to you. Does
it happen?
Yes, it does happen. At all those
times, try to make yourself strong, stop thinking about all those times and
simply live in the moment. Forget who broke your heart, overlook those who hurt
you, move ahead and make yourself happier. Life isn’t about regretting,
repenting or being remorseful. Things will fall back into place, let go of
those who don’t deserve you, the ones who will, eventually would come back to
you.
You don’t need to run behind people and seek for attention or to ask for love & care, but just be yourself and
you will get all the attention, love as well as care by those who actually do. There
are many pretenders, but not all are genuine and true. Don’t worry, when someone
close to you breaks your heart, even they get equally hurt like you &
realize. This is a small world and everything happens in this world itself,
whether it is love, hate, vengeance, remorse. Be patient and watch!
It isn’t about hoping for a better
future, but it is about creating one just by yourself. Accept the positive
except the negative. Believe in yourself and remember that:
“The woods are lovely, dark and deep,
But I have promises to keep.
And miles to go before I sleep,
Miles to go before I sleep. . . ”
